This weeks materials were about emotion in cultural context and I will briefly talk about the parts interested me the most. The article used Relational Models Theory which had 4 models (Communal Sharing, Authority Ranking, Equality Matching and Market Pricing). This study was intiguing because it showed me that there was a way to explain human relationships under 4 main construct. It was simple yet effective. It showed how humans strongly react to unfairness by anger and how the emotions like guilt and shame play a significant role in relationships.The text also tells that when higher status people broke rules, it was seen as wrong but didn’t make them feel much shame or guilt, showing they didn’t care much about the victims feelings. On the other hand, when people with lower status broke rules, it was seen as less wrong but made them feel more shame and guilt. Subordinates were especially worried about their superiors anger, showing emotional reaction the the power difference. Despite my very limited experience I also happen to witness this when I was working as a secretary in a clinic. Sometimes therapists were doing mistakes that would cost so much time to me yet they rarely seemed stressed or apologetic about it. I was worried about making mistakes and triple checking everything all the time because they would never let any even minor mistakes slide. In a way this experiment proves that morality has power criterias. Those with authority or power can afford to bypass morality more and I think that is why Plato said “The measure of a man is what he does with power”.
The textbook mentions that Japanese athletes’ emotions are more tied to relationships, while U.S. athletes’ emotions tend to be self-focused. While there may be some truth to this, I believe it can be a bit misleading. Although my sample size is narrow, looking at some of the greatest American boxers, like Ray Leonard, Roy Jones, and Evander Holyfield, shows that individualism may still be secondary when it comes to representing one’s community. Leonard, who won an Olympic gold medal, described it as the greatest accomplishment of his life, even though his career brought him so much wealth and fame. Similarly, Holyfield and Jones, who didn’t win gold but went on to achieve significant financial success and glory in professional boxing, both expressed that their greatest regret was not winning the Olympic gold. They all emphasize that the feeling of representing an entire nation and the pride that comes with it surpasses even the millions of dollars they earned in their careers and would not give it up for any other accomplishment.
It was also mentioned in textbook that Westerners focus more on the mouth, while East Asians pay more attention to the eyes while perceiving emotions. However this contradicts what I know because as far as I know in China it can be seen as a sign of disrespect and according to the Ng, Chung, Tee, and Gabbert (2023), prolonged eye contact can be seen as intimidating in Malaysia.
What fascinates me about all the chapters we read is how the country we live in really seems to be quite complicated in this east vs west comparisons. For example the text said European Americans tend to view excited, energetic leaders as more fitting which is very true for Turkey. Turkish political system is very much about shouting, effectively speaking and hyping up the crowds rather than being useful. However in many other areas we carry what is considered as the Eastern qualities like being more collective and interdependant.
Another info was how East Asians are more comfortable experiencing mixed emotions which shows itself in the Yin and Yang that opposite forces are interconnected and interdependent in the natural world, and they can exist in harmony rather than being separate.
Ng, M., Chung, K. L., Tee, E., & Gabbert, F. (2023). Rapport in a non-WEIRD multicultural society: A qualitative analysis in Southeast Asia. Investigative Interviewing: Research & Practice, 13(1), 19-37.
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