{"id":82,"date":"2018-09-12T08:58:58","date_gmt":"2018-09-12T08:58:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/?p=82"},"modified":"2018-09-12T08:58:58","modified_gmt":"2018-09-12T08:58:58","slug":"nasilsin-sorusu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/2018\/09\/12\/nasilsin-sorusu\/","title":{"rendered":"“NASILSIN” Sorusunun Do\u011fru Bir Cevab\u0131 Var M\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"[Dr. Ali Bayramo\u011flu, “Ba\u015fka Bir D\u00fcnya M\u00fcmk\u00fcn”]\u00a0 Kitap hakk\u0131nda detayl\u0131 bilgiye BURADAN<\/a> ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n
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\u201cNASILSIN?\u201d sorusuna nas\u0131l bir cevap verirsek “DO\u011eRU” olur? Ya da hissetmenin do\u011frusu var m\u0131?<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan kendi ana dilini nas\u0131l \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini pek hat\u0131rlamaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc dili \u00f6\u011frenirken konu\u015fmay\u0131 bilmiyordur insan. Konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise dili \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftir \u00e7oktan. \u201cDo\u011fru cevap\u201d da \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6\u011fretilmi\u015f olur.<\/p>\n

Bu “do\u011fru cevap”, yeni bir dili \u00f6\u011frenirken gece karanl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndaki bir ay gibi belirgin hale gelir. Ortaokul haz\u0131rl\u0131kta \u0130ngilizce \u00f6\u011frenirken dersler \u015fu diyalogla ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131: -\u201cHow are you?\u201d (Nas\u0131ls\u0131n?) -\u201cFine thanks and you?\u201d (\u0130yiyim ya sen?) S\u00fcrekli bunu tekrarlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rl\u0131yorum. O zamanlar bu konu\u015fmada bana garip gelen bir \u015fey yoktu. Hele bir de toplum, konu\u015fmay\u0131 hen\u00fcz \u00f6\u011frenirken bu kal\u0131pla ko\u015fullarsa insan\u0131, insan\u0131n neye ko\u015fulland\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan haberi dahi olmaz.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk, \u201cnas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d sorusunun \u201cdo\u011fru\u201d cevab\u0131n\u0131n \u201ciyiyim\u201d oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenir. Sanki bu sorunun \u201cdo\u011fru\u201d cevaplar\u0131 \u201c\u00fczg\u00fcn\u00fcm\u201d, \u201cmoralim bozuk\u201d, \u201ckorkuyorum\u201d, \u201cdepresyonday\u0131m\u201d olamazm\u0131\u015f gibi. Bu sebeple, her zaman \u201c\u0130yim, ya sen?\u201d olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor insan. \u201cYanl\u0131\u015f\u201d hissetmekten korkuyor \u00e7ocuk. \u201c\u0130Y\u0130 H\u0130SSETME TOPLUMU\u201d, tek bir cevapla k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131yor insan\u0131n temas edebilece\u011fi var olma halini.
\nSonras\u0131nda pek \u00e7ok insan “do\u011fru” sand\u0131\u011f\u0131 cevaplar\u0131 veriyor. Sonra odas\u0131na \u00e7ekilip ben neden \u201cyanl\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u201d diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor. Ancak pek \u00e7ok zaman insan, dayat\u0131lan bu \u201cyanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u201d bir \u201cyaln\u0131zl\u0131k\u201d olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da fark edemiyor.
\n\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendi odalar\u0131na \u00e7ekilip a\u011flayan insanlar, d\u0131\u015far\u0131da di\u011fer “yanl\u0131\u015f” oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen insanlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda \u201cNas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d diye sorulunca \u201c\u0130yiyim ya sen?\u201d oluyorlar.<\/p>\n

Davran\u0131\u015fsal Esneme (DE)\u2019ye g\u00f6re \u201cNas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d sorusunun tek do\u011fru cevab\u0131 \u201c\u0130yiyim\u201d de\u011fildir; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ki\u015fi her nas\u0131lsa o DO\u011eRUDUR.
\nDE, olumlu\/olumsuz yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6tesine ge\u00e7erek t\u00fcm duygu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerle temas edebilme becerisini art\u0131rmay\u0131 hedefler.<\/p>\n[Dr. Ali Bayramo\u011flu, “Ba\u015fka Bir D\u00fcnya M\u00fcmk\u00fcn”]\u00a0 Kitap hakk\u0131nda detayl\u0131 bilgiye BURADAN<\/a> ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

B\u015eKAA 1 DNY\u00dcA MMK\u00dc\u00dcN — Kitap, DUYGULARLA TEMASI art\u0131rmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011freten pek \u00e7ok bilginin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta hemen \u015e\u0130MD\u0130 ve BURADA uygulanabilecek 42 farkl\u0131 al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 da i\u00e7ermektedir.<\/p>\n

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Kitab\u0131 bulabilece\u011finiz ba\u011flant\u0131lar:<\/p>\n

Hepsi Burada<\/a> \/ Kitapyurdu <\/a>\/ Arkada\u015f Kitabevi<\/a> \/ Pandora <\/a>\/ Babil <\/a>\/Oda Kitap<\/a> \/ D&R<\/a> \/ idefix<\/a> \/ KitapBulut<\/a> \/ Kitap Koala<\/a><\/p>\n

Do\u011fan Kitap<\/a> ve pek \u00e7ok \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i kitabevinde…<\/p>\n

Kitap satan her yerde<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck yaz\u0131lar\u0131 Instagram’da takip edebilirsiniz. @aynagonul<\/a><\/p>\n

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[Dr. Ali Bayramo\u011flu, “Ba\u015fka Bir D\u00fcnya M\u00fcmk\u00fcn”]\u00a0 Kitap hakk\u0131nda detayl\u0131 bilgiye BURADAN ula\u015fabilirsiniz. \u201cNASILSIN?\u201d sorusuna nas\u0131l bir cevap verirsek “DO\u011eRU” olur? Ya da hissetmenin do\u011frusu var m\u0131? \u0130nsan kendi ana dilini nas\u0131l \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini pek hat\u0131rlamaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc dili \u00f6\u011frenirken konu\u015fmay\u0131 bilmiyordur insan. Konu\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise dili \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015ftir \u00e7oktan. \u201cDo\u011fru cevap\u201d da \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u00f6\u011fretilmi\u015f olur. Bu “do\u011fru […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5675,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-82","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-davranissal-esneme-yazilari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=82"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/82\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=82"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=82"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=82"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}