{"id":80,"date":"2018-09-11T14:35:47","date_gmt":"2018-09-11T14:35:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/?p=80"},"modified":"2018-09-12T08:53:35","modified_gmt":"2018-09-12T08:53:35","slug":"unutmak_1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/2018\/09\/11\/unutmak_1\/","title":{"rendered":"Ne Tuhaf! Unutmaya \u00c7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a Hat\u0131rl\u0131yor \u0130nsan"},"content":{"rendered":"[Dr. Ali Bayramo\u011flu, “Ba\u015fka Bir D\u00fcnya M\u00fcmk\u00fcn”]\u00a0 Kitap hakk\u0131nda detayl\u0131 bilgiye BURADAN<\/a> ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n
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\u0130nsan\u0131n unutmak istedi\u011fi pek \u00e7ok \u015fey olabilir hayatta. Ama tuhaft\u0131r unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a hat\u0131rl\u0131yor insan. Batakl\u0131k gibi… \u0130\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a bat\u0131yor i\u00e7ine.<\/p>\n

Batakl\u0131klar, insanlar\u0131 i\u00e7ine \u00e7eken canl\u0131lar de\u011fildir. Pek \u00e7ok zaman insanlar belli bir yere kadar batakl\u0131\u011fa batar ve orada \u00f6ylece kal\u0131r. Neresidir, o belli bir yer? \u0130lgin\u00e7 bir cevab\u0131 var. \u0130nsan ta ki hareket edemeyecek noktaya geldi\u011finde daha batmaz olur; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131 batakl\u0131\u011fa bat\u0131ran \u015fey onun batal\u0131kla kendi bo\u011fu\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Unutmak da b\u00f6yle i\u015fte, unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a unutulmak istenen neyse insan i\u00e7ine g\u00f6m\u00fcl\u00fcyor.
\nBir \u015feyi unutmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalayan insanlara soruyorum. Diyelim ki unuttunuz, unuttu\u011funuzu nereden bileceksiniz? Yani bir insan\u0131n bir \u015feyi unuttu\u011fundan emin olabilmesi i\u00e7in unuttu\u011funu bilmesi gerekiyor?
\nYani neyi unuttu\u011funu bilmesi gerekiyor?<\/p>\n

Unuttu\u011fu \u015feyi bildik\u00e7e tekrar hat\u0131rl\u0131yor ve bir d\u00f6ng\u00fc ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Belki de bizim sorunumuz o \u015feyi unutmak de\u011fil de bu d\u00f6ng\u00fcden \u00e7\u0131kmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Unutmak bizim kontrol\u00fcm\u00fczde de\u011fil. Unutmay\u0131 kontrol ettik\u00e7e hat\u0131rl\u0131yoruz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Bu insan\u0131n \u00e7eli\u015fkilerinden birisi.
\nBu sebeple Davran\u0131\u015fsal Esneme, unutulacak \u015feyi kabul etmeyi \u00f6nerir ve sorar: \u201cDiyelim ki bunu tamamen unutmu\u015f olsayd\u0131n, hayat\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l ya\u015fard\u0131n?\u201d Kitapta \u201cACI DUYGUSAL BATAKLIK\u201d b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnde batakl\u0131lar\u0131n yap\u0131s\u0131 ve bu batakl\u0131klara g\u00f6m\u00fclmeme ile ilgili detayl\u0131 bilgilere ula\u015fabilirsiniz. Ayr\u0131ca KONTROL ve KABUL b\u00f6l\u00fcmleri, bu becerilerin DE\u011e\u0130\u015e\u0130M i\u00e7in kullan\u0131lmas\u0131 konusunda zengin bilgileri ve al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131 okuyucuya sunmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n[Dr. Ali Bayramo\u011flu, “Ba\u015fka Bir D\u00fcnya M\u00fcmk\u00fcn”]\u00a0 Kitap hakk\u0131nda detayl\u0131 bilgiye BURADAN<\/a> ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

Kitap, pek \u00e7ok bilginin yan\u0131s\u0131ra g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta hemen \u015e\u0130MD\u0130 ve BURADA uygulanabilecek 42 farkl\u0131 al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 da i\u00e7ermektedir.<\/p>\n

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Kitab\u0131 bulabilece\u011finiz ba\u011flant\u0131lar:<\/p>\n

Hepsi Burada<\/a> \/ Kitapyurdu <\/a>\/ Arkada\u015f Kitabevi<\/a> \/ Pandora <\/a>\/ Babil <\/a>\/Oda Kitap<\/a> \/ D&R<\/a> \/ idefix<\/a> \/ KitapBulut<\/a> \/ Kitap Koala<\/a><\/p>\n

Do\u011fan Kitap<\/a> ve pek \u00e7ok \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i kitabevinde…<\/p>\n

Kitap satan her yerde<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck yaz\u0131lar\u0131 Instagram’da takip edebilirsiniz. @aynagonul<\/a><\/p>\n

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[Dr. Ali Bayramo\u011flu, “Ba\u015fka Bir D\u00fcnya M\u00fcmk\u00fcn”]\u00a0 Kitap hakk\u0131nda detayl\u0131 bilgiye BURADAN ula\u015fabilirsiniz.   \u0130nsan\u0131n unutmak istedi\u011fi pek \u00e7ok \u015fey olabilir hayatta. Ama tuhaft\u0131r unutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a hat\u0131rl\u0131yor insan. Batakl\u0131k gibi… \u0130\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a bat\u0131yor i\u00e7ine. Batakl\u0131klar, insanlar\u0131 i\u00e7ine \u00e7eken canl\u0131lar de\u011fildir. Pek \u00e7ok zaman insanlar belli bir yere kadar batakl\u0131\u011fa batar ve orada \u00f6ylece kal\u0131r. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5675,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-davranissal-esneme-yazilari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}