{"id":43,"date":"2018-08-14T06:36:21","date_gmt":"2018-08-14T06:36:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/?p=43"},"modified":"2018-09-03T06:12:07","modified_gmt":"2018-09-03T06:12:07","slug":"icimde_bir_bosluk_var","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/2018\/08\/14\/icimde_bir_bosluk_var\/","title":{"rendered":"“\u0130\u00e7imde Bir Bo\u015fluk Var”"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Do\u011fada bir yavru kayboldu\u011funda korkar ve a\u011flar. Kayg\u0131 ve h\u00fcz\u00fcn, kaybolan yavrunun ailesine ula\u015fmas\u0131nda ona yolda\u015f olur.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Bir meslekta\u015f\u0131m, bir dan\u0131\u015fan\u0131n\u0131n “\u0130\u00e7imde bir bo\u015fluk var” dedi\u011finden \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla bahsetmi\u015fti. \u015ea\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla “\u00dcstelik anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar\u0131yla adam hayal etti\u011fim pek \u00e7ok \u015feye sahipti” demi\u015fti. Adam\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc etti\u011fi bo\u015fluk, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme odas\u0131nda ikisi i\u00e7in de “kaybolmu\u015fluk” olmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

Do\u011fada bir yavru kayboldu\u011funda korkar ve a\u011flar. Kayg\u0131 ve h\u00fcz\u00fcn, kaybolan yavrunun ailesine ula\u015fmas\u0131nda ona yolda\u015f olur. Bu sesle \u00e7evresindeki bak\u0131m verenleri \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmak ister. Kaybolmu\u015fluk bir sorundur; ancak h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve korku sorundan ziyade yol arkada\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Do\u011fa kendi dengesiyle vard\u0131r. A\u011flama sesine kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bulamayan yavru sessizle\u015ferek i\u00e7ine kapan\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7evre, yavrunun a\u011flamalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verilmedi\u011fini g\u00f6ren avc\u0131larla doludur. Yavruyu sessizle\u015ftiren “bunal\u0131m”, bir d\u00fc\u015fman de\u011fil onu koruyan bir arkada\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Tek ama\u00e7 “\u0130Y\u0130 H\u0130SSETMEK” oldu\u011funda “KAYBOLMU\u015eLUK” sorunu g\u00f6r\u00fcnmez olur. Kaybolmu\u015fluktan bizi kurtaracak olan arkada\u015flar, yok edilecek d\u00fc\u015fmanlara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.
\nOysa h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve kayg\u0131 bizi aray\u0131\u015fta tutacak yol arkada\u015flar\u0131d\u0131r. “\u0130Y\u0130 H\u0130SSETMEK” ise bizi oyalacakt\u0131r belki; ancak kaybolmu\u015fluk her akl\u0131m\u0131za geldi\u011finde h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve kayg\u0131 tekrar belirecektir. Sonras\u0131 yine “\u0130Y\u0130 H\u0130SSETME SAVA\u015eI” ve o duygular\u0131n yok edilmesi m\u00fccadelesi olacakt\u0131r. Peki ya kaybolan o yavru?
\nOnun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc aray\u0131p bulmakt\u0131r, “\u0130Y\u0130 H\u0130SSETMEK” de\u011fil.
\nDavran\u0131\u015fsal Esneme, kaybolmu\u015f yavrunun ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ok\u015fayan eldir ve der ki:<\/p>\n

“Seni kaybolmu\u015flu\u011funla temas ettirece\u011fim. Arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan korkmamay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretece\u011fim. Sana kaybolmu\u015flu\u011funu unutturmayaca\u011f\u0131m ki aramaya devam edebilesin. Kaybolmu\u015flu\u011fun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc e\u011flenmek ve oyalanmak de\u011fil. Sana bir y\u00f6nde y\u00fcr\u00fcmeyi \u00f6\u011fretece\u011fim. Bu aray\u0131\u015fta hava hep g\u00fcne\u015fli olmaz. BEN SANA YA\u011eMURUN ALTINDA Y\u00dcR\u00dcMEY\u0130 DE \u00d6\u011eRETECE\u011e\u0130M<\/strong><\/em>.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

G\u00fcnl\u00fck yaz\u0131lar\u0131 Instagram’da takip edebilirsiniz. @aynagonul<\/a><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n[Dr. Ali Bayramo\u011flu, “Ba\u015fka Bir D\u00fcnya M\u00fcmk\u00fcn”]\u00a0 Kitap hakk\u0131nda detayl\u0131 bilgiye BURADAN<\/a> ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

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Kitab\u0131 bulabilece\u011finiz ba\u011flant\u0131lar:<\/p>\n

Hepsi Burada<\/a> \/ Kitapyurdu <\/a>\/ Arkada\u015f Kitabevi<\/a> \/ Pandora <\/a>\/ Babil <\/a>\/Oda Kitap<\/a> \/ D&R<\/a> \/ idefix<\/a> \/ KitapBulut<\/a> \/ Kitap Koala<\/a><\/h4>\n
Do\u011fan Kitap<\/a> ve pek \u00e7ok \u00e7evrimi\u00e7i kitabevinde…<\/div>\n
Kitap satan her yerde<\/strong><\/em><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  Do\u011fada bir yavru kayboldu\u011funda korkar ve a\u011flar. Kayg\u0131 ve h\u00fcz\u00fcn, kaybolan yavrunun ailesine ula\u015fmas\u0131nda ona yolda\u015f olur. Bir meslekta\u015f\u0131m, bir dan\u0131\u015fan\u0131n\u0131n “\u0130\u00e7imde bir bo\u015fluk var” dedi\u011finden \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla bahsetmi\u015fti. \u015ea\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131kla “\u00dcstelik anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kadar\u0131yla adam hayal etti\u011fim pek \u00e7ok \u015feye sahipti” demi\u015fti. Adam\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc etti\u011fi bo\u015fluk, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme odas\u0131nda ikisi i\u00e7in de “kaybolmu\u015fluk” olmu\u015ftu. Do\u011fada bir yavru […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5675,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-davranissal-esneme-yazilari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5675"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=43"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=43"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=43"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.metu.edu.tr\/bali\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=43"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}